There is also my parent's declining health that brings me to write about my things. These last few months my dad has been cleaning house. He tells me to take stuff. It is like he is getting ready for something. He looks tired. Caring for my mom 24/7 is taking its toll. I try to help on the weekends but there is only so much I can do. Guilt does set in most days. My dad told me again this weekend that he is not ready to send her to a nursing home. He still wants to take care of her.
I have most of my mom's dishes now. They include some of her gadgets, baking items and trays. She used to love to shop for kitchen gadgets not so much dishes. Her goal was to get the meal done and not so much on the presentation. Our table was dressed up only on holidays. There was never a centerpiece or candles(only for birthdays on the cake). Back then it didn't matter to me. I was just happy not to eat on a paper plate. I didn't mind washing the dishes either.
I will tell you a not so sad story about my mom. This past weekend I took my parents a new coffee maker. It is nothing fancy but boy was my mom excited. She kept asking (in her own way) if it was for her. When I would tell her yes, her smile would be a mile long. It made me sad only because I miss the days when we would go shopping.
So on to my table. Do you still want to see it? My mom would probably say the tablecloth is too busy for her tastes. Although, I think she would love the color combination.
Just a few photos this time around. The Fiesta colors are Chocolate, Paprika, Ivory and Evergreen.
Prayers are being said for all those being affected by the storm.
Your table is lovely! Prayers for your Mom and Dad. I know what you are going through! Growing up the two words my mother used about decorating she didn't like were too "busy" and too "dark." And I end up restoring a Victorian house!!! I love the evergreen bowl with the fall gourds in it and love those napkin rings!
ReplyDeleteThank you so much!! I can't remember where I go the napkin rings. After I found them, I found the candle holders that go along with them.
DeleteMonica, it is so hard having parents in declining health. My heart goes out to you and your family.
ReplyDeleteYour collection of Fiestaware astounds me...the colors are gorgeous. Love your fall table...and I like busy tableclothes!
Thank you Marigene! I wish you were nearby so we could play dishes together and shop so maybe some of your good deals would rub off on me.
DeleteMonica, have you thought of having a nurse or some kind of care giver to come in a few day a week to help your Dad or give him a break. I know it must be hard for all of you. Your dish combo looks great, I bet your Mom would love it because you created a beautiful environment. Thanks for stopping by, Laura
ReplyDeleteThanks for stopping by. I know Your feelings. I am 81 and hope my kids don't have to go through that. I came from a lg family and mismatched dishes. I quess that is why I like doing tablescapes from thrift shop dishes. I don't have elagant dishes as that wouldn't be me. I love your table sort of make me think of vinage .
ReplyDeleteYour parents are truly blessed to have a daughter who loves them so dearly. I pray that your days with them will be filled with precious moments. Cherry Kay
ReplyDeleteI love your table, the brown napkins with the cloth look so pretty.
ReplyDeleteI feel your pain. It is so hard to watch our parents fail. I am glad the coffee pot made your mom happy. Prayers for them, and God bless.